Trust and Obey: Decision Making Science 101

One of the things I miss the most about my adolescence is reading all the teenyboppers novels series. My teenybopper kindred spirit's at the time was precocious ten -year- old Anastasia Krupnik, a fictional title character of a popular Lois Lowry book series. Anastasia's chronicles had a expectational and authentic way of echoing feelings felt by the the adolescent girl audience who are "just trying to grow up"

If only my future could be categorized neatly like Anastasia's at my local library or Barnes and Nobles with easy access. I could just skip over Daniella Has a lot of Decisions straight to Daniella Has The Answers,followed by Daniella On Her Own and Daniella's Chosen Career.

But every time I feel over welled by all my unique challenges of my quarter life crisis,I always have to refocus and remember that I serving a amazing God who told me in the Bible,his love letter to us that I need to let go of my Type A personality of :

• Fervent list making,
• Creating models of the top three possible outcomes of my 5 year plan
  
• Just plain post grad anxiety.

He tells us in Proverbs 3:5 to Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.


Check out this great article that discusses trusting in God to drive your decision making science.

http://www.boundless.org/2005/articles/a0001729.cfm

Have a Happy Sabbath!
~Dani~

A New Key of Life

I rose this birthday morning with a grateful heart and full of anticipation of the next key I would encounter through this complicated melody entitled Life. Recent accidentals such as the death of my great grandmother has really helped shifted my mindset into truly being intentional in living a purpose driven life. As a recent grad,I struggled daily to identify my purpose in a the "real world"who no longer accepts my student class standing as a valid form of identification. The "real world" and my deferred friend Sallie Mae were more the ready to close the my college chapter for me and move me into new chapter . Despite my attempts to formulate my 5-year plan,the unknowns begun to become the author of my post grad life and began weighting me down emotionally and spiritually.

Through conversions with friends and family,I learned that my situation wasn't unique, for they shared that they were or had experienced similar feelings as a recent grad. Although that provided me support,I knew there had to be a term out that described all that I was feelings.My mind then flashed back to a lunchtime discussion during a summer internship about a book for recent grads entitled Quarterlife Crisis:The Unique Challenges of Life in Your Twenties. Coined in 1997 by co-author Abby Wilner, a quarter-life crisis is essentially a period of anxiety,uncertainty,and inner turmoil that often accompanies the transition to adulthood.

My goal for this blog is for it to be a oasis of interactive conversions of the unique challenges faced by the twenty-something crowd as we experience the good,the bad and the ugly of their own quarterlife crisis.

Inspirational Quote:Change is the essence of life. Be willing to surrender what you are for what you could become.~Mahatma Gandhi~

Have a blessed evening!
~Dani~